I had another session with my therapist today and now I have a headache.
She asked me lots of interesting questions which made me think really hard. Probably a good thing too, but now I have a headache.
The questions made me see relationships between the way my mother told me she was proud of me (which she didn't) and how when I talk to her now she really doesn't really leave room for me to talk about me........and then finding myself tongue-tied when I am out on a date.....interesting thoughts.
She also had a few things to say about use of energy in areas where you really shouldn't be expending the energy. (Frogdancer, you would love what she said!) Basically I need to think about the house I am living in as a place where I live - and just that.....nothing more....